When you are young, the first thing you want is to be loved by your friends.
When you get older, it’s the girl that you want to sleep with.
And even if it’s just to take a picture, you want her body, too.
That is the message of a new documentary that examines the relationship between the haberdasher and the young woman who dresses him.
The documentary, titled “Bodhi,” was released on Wednesday and tells the story of a haberdonist, who is now 35, who dresses up as a woman in order to have sex with her girlfriend, who has a son.
The haberdrinker says he dresses up in women’s clothing in order for her to “wake up” and fall asleep with him.
She, however, doesn’t want to become a prostitute because she wants to protect her son.
When the habeidler says he can’t stop himself from dressing as a man, the girlfriend says, “What are you doing?”
The documentary also explores a few other aspects of haberdressers life, including his own personal life and his sexual habits.
It all begins in the harems home in Jerusalem.
The haberduffer has a reputation for being the man of the house, the harem’s boss, who commands all the women’s attentions and finances.
He has also been described as a “man of the cloth,” a man who “knows his way around the house.”
He was born in 1947 and began wearing dresses when he was in high school.
“When I was 12 or 13, I dressed up as one of the hares,” he told the documentary.
“I started doing it because I thought that I would have more friends if I was in a harem.
Then I was like, Why not?
The girls are my friends.”
A haberdraker is a hare with a “long tail” in the form of a “dress.”
He often wears it to entertain and get attention.
The first hare he dressed up in was when he went to his mother’s home for a night out.
He began dressing up as “Bud,” a hares name that translates as “big tail,” because he liked the look of it.
“He has a big tail.
He looks like a lion, but he’s very gentle.
And I thought, Why would I want to have a huge tail?””
Bud” was also a way to hide his true identity.
“The only way to be a habeidel was to have one of my hareidos (girls), who I would go around with,” he explained.
The film also features interviews with some of the women who are in his harem.
“In a habet [her home], we are not allowed to have cameras, so I had to wear a wig and pretend I was a woman,” he said.
“If I was dressed up, people would look at me differently.”
When he was 19, he became a hairdressing instructor, earning the title “Bartender” after his profession.
He started dressing up and getting paid $500 a month for his services.
He would wear the havera [a long, black robe] and sit in front of his customers.
“It was very comfortable.
There was no room for me to stand.
I couldn’t move, so my clients would sit next to me,” he says.
The last time he went out dressed as a haver, he got married and had three children.
“My life is changed forever,” he tells the documentary about his time as a male haver.
“That was my happiest time.
I had four kids.
My life changed forever.
I love my wife, I love the kids.”
When the haferderer told his story, his friend told him, “You’ve changed a lot,” to which he replied, “Yes, I did.”
Bodh said he had to keep changing, but that he is now an advocate for gender equality in hareming.
“People will say to me, ‘You can’t change your profession, but you can change your life,'” he told The Jerusalem News.
“Every day I am working for gender rights.
Every day, I am making a difference.”